Dear Husband (from your Stay-at-Home-Wife)
~This post is in collaboration with PinkBlush, but all opinions are my own.~
(To read my other letter to Jake, be sure to check out Dear Husband (from your Teammate for Life).)
Dear Husband (from your Stay-at-Home-Wife),
I write this as you drive ten hours and work thirteen today. Know that I appreciate you and hope you understand the extent of that statement.
I know we made this decision together when we chose for me to stay at home. There was never an argument, only understanding and support from day one. I think it was something we both wanted equally. I have always been thankful for the fact that we are on the same page more often than not.
You have never made me feel guilty for bringing in little to no money over the last three years. It has only ever been me who ever felt upset or saddened as an empty box appeared in our budget line for my portion of the monthly income. You never blinked an eye and were just grateful that I could be home.
On that note, you have never asked me to start making money even when our budget dropped so low and we knew something needed to change. Instead you went out and found ways to make more money for our little family. I never doubt warmth in our home or full cabinets of food.
You work hard to provide and still come home at the end of the day and play with the kids and help put them to bed. Neither of our days ever really end. Sometimes I feel bad, if I am being honest, when both kids nap at the same time and I just relax. I know this isn’t what happens in the middle of your day. And yet, whenever I’ve admitted this, you just say, “Good for you. You need to rest.”
I love the way our son’s face lights up when you walk through the door or call us in the middle of the day. Our daughter might not like everyone, but she sure loves you. I know they feel the same warmth and love that I do.
I know I have complained and let phrases slip from my mouth that I would like to take back. Those are the days you have found me at my worst. Those words are never an indication of ungratefulness for what you do. It is my selfishness talking about my day. I really don’t wish these days away. Perhaps some seasons ( 😉 ) but you really have given me the best gift.
You have given me a life of learning and teaching and service. You’ve unknowingly opened up my life to so many opportunities I never knew existed or dreamed about.
And lastly, when I told you this summer I wanted to start working from home, you made sure it was the right decision and then jumped all in. When I ask you to watch the kids because I have a photo shoot or a writing deadline, you are there.
My prayer for our children is that our son becomes a father like you and our daughter knows what a true, loving man is because of your example.
So, Husband of this Stay-at-Home-Sometimes-Working-Wife-and-Mom, I love you and thank you. You are my teammate for life.
How beautiful is this Black Floral Crochet Trim Bell Sleeve Wrap Top from PinkBlush? I am probably going to wear it out too much this holiday season, but I absolutely don’t care! It’s just the perfect shirt for holiday gatherings, date nights and photo shoots with my husband! <3